Friday, January 31, 2014

Friday Fives: Lilly Pulitzer Spring Favorites!

Spring is my favorite season of all. I love the light fabrics, the bright colors, and the transition into summer! The new spring collection from Lilly Pulitzer is exactly that: the perfect items for this spring! Here are my five favorite pieces from the collection:

Briella Fit & Flare Dress in Pool Blue Southern Charm  ||  Charlton Sheath Dress  in Pop Pink Barnard Boucle  ||  Eaton Shift Dress in Resort White In The Garden  ||  Colby Pintuck Top in Resort White Tybee Metallic Clip Dot  ||  Callahan Short in Pop Pink Southern Charm

Do you have any favorites from the collection?

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Collaboration with Neidelyn of Get Up & Dress Up: The Blazer

Today marks the 3rd and final day of my collab with Neidelyn! Make sure to check out our first two posts on styling a little black dress and a graphic sweater if you haven't already! Today we're styling the blazer. Blazers are such a nice piece to have and look great styled in so many different ways! 

My Look

What I'm Wearing:
Blazer - Forever21 (similar)  ||  Shirt - J.Crew (factory)  ||  Ankle Jeans - Forever21  ||  Flats - JCPenny (similar)

Make sure to head on over to Neidelyn's blog to find out all her outfit details!

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Collaboration with Neidelyn of Get Up & Dress Up: Graphic Sweater

It's day 2 of my collab with Neidelyn! Make sure you check out yesterday's post if you missed it featuring the infamous little black dress! Today we bring you a favorite: graphic sweaters!

My Look

 What I'm Wearing:
Sweater - Old Navy  ||  Vest - Old Navy  ||  Skirt - H&M  ||  Tights - Drugstore  ||  Rain Boots - Hunter  ||  Boot Socks - Hunter

Neidelyn's Look


Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Collaboration with Neidelyn of Get Up & Dress Up: Little Black Dress

I am too excited to share with you all this wonderful collab I've done with Neidelyn of Get Up & Dress Up! We've been planning and talking for weeks and today's finally the day of our three part collab. Today we bring you how we style the infamous little black dress. Make sure you check out Neidelyn's post - she's such a kind girl and a great blogger!

My Look

What I'm Wearing: 
Dress - H&M (similar)  ||  Cardigan - Hollister (similar)  ||  Shoes - Steve Madden (similar)  ||  Watch - Gruen II  ||  Bracelets - Wet Seal (similar)

Hope you enjoyed our first looks! Cheers!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Goals of the Week #2

{credit: oh my deer}

I'm proud to say that last week I fulfilled my goals! I somewhat combined my two goals into one: on Thursday evening, I asked my roommate if she wanted to go to our school's recreational center. We did! Visiting the rec center was both out of my comfort zone and a goal of mine (I hope that's not considered cheating) so I got to tackle both goals at once. Here are my goals for this week:

{Visit the rec center twice this week}

{Get at least 8.5-9 hours of sleep three times this week}

I have an awful habit of not getting enough sleep during the week, and oversleeping on the weekends. Part of a healthy lifestyle includes healthy sleeping habits! I've read that 8.5-9 hours of sleep a night is what's recommended and will help people, especially students, retain information easier. Here's to more sleep and more sweat!


Saturday, January 25, 2014

Dating a Fraternity Boy - When You're Not in a Sorority

Dating can be tricky, hard, and difficult to manage. It can also be wonderful, exciting, and comforting as well. Luckily for me, Chris and I never had any problems as our relationship progressed. Three years later, going on four, we still have only had maybe two fights and never leave each other unhappy/annoyed/frustrated/angry. Though I didn't have any insecurities while we dated for the first two years, when he decided to join a fraternity (he was denied housing at his school and decided this was the best choice), I'll admit, I was a bit nervous. Thousands of thoughts ran through my mind: will he not have time to spend with me? Is he going to find a girl he likes more? Will he become an alcoholic? What even happens in a fraternity?!
                           {Foam Party Spring 2013}
At the end of the summer finished Chris had pledged to a house - Delta Tau Delta. I was extremely nervous but as I spent time with him in his new fraternity, I realized how much fun it was for the both of us. Like anything that changes, it took a little time to become adjusted to the idea that my boyfriend, who is far from the stereotypical fraternity guy (though a lot of guys in his house are as well), was now living in a fraternity with 60 other guys.

I should mention that Chris and I don't attend the same university. My school is much, much smaller, doesn't have a football team, and isn't in a big city. The attitudes are very different, and thus, my school doesn't have a Greek system. If my school did, however, have a Greek system, I definitely would have rushed! I would love to be in a sorority, but that's not an option for me.

From my experience, these are little tips I've gathered on how to have a great experience dating a cute fraternity boy and highlights of dating one. It can be fun and exciting - fraternity boys know how to keep you on your toes! P.S. This is really long!

You get to go on fun Grab-A-Dates (or Date Dashes, etc.)! The first GAD I went to was a professional soccer game. It was the first time Chris or I had ever been to one and it was a lot of fun! We rode down with a handful of other couples (or pairs of friends) to the field, which helped me to get know the other guys in the house. Fraternities are always having or hosting fun dates: mini indoor putt put golf, fun themed ones like "Risky Business", sporting events, etc. Going with someone just as a friend is always fun, too!
{"Risky Business" GAD Fall 2013 and Soccer GAD Fall 2012}

{A not so great picture (of us not matching! oops)
of the Winter Formal 2013}

Formals are pretty fun, too. One thing I miss about high school (I know, I'm that girl) is dressing up for dances! I love having the opportunity to wear a fun semi-formal/formal dress and dance with my dressed up date. It's so fun! Thankfully fraternities and sororities have formals, and that means more dances. The Delts (Delts is the nickname for Delta Tau Delta members/house) have two formals a year: one during the winter in a cute little town close by and one during the spring in Vancouver, BC! Last year Chris and I went to the winter formal and we had a blast! Going out to dinner and spending the evening dancing and hanging out with a bunch of fun people is a great way to spend time together. Formals are also really fun with a friend!

Get to know the guys who are also living in the house. Seriously, make friends! Whenever I visit Chris, we always hang out with the guys he's closest to. Be friendly, ask them how they're doing, start conversations, laugh at their jokes! There are plenty of guys in Delts that I consider to not only be Chris' friends/brothers but my friends, too. Getting to know the other guys will make things like formals, GADs, and just hanging out so much more fun! Plus, it's always nice to hear that you've made a good impression on the guys!
{That's a Monster in my hand, I promise! Summer 2013}

Have trust in your relationship and your boyfriend. Knowing that there will be many sorority girls at Chris' frat multiple times a week really freaked me out at first. I was scared a girl would flirt with him and he'd forget about me. Trust me, it can be scary! But what I needed to remember is how committed we were to each other.  I knew Chris wasn't a person to forget his commitments and promises, and that if a girl was talking to him, he would make it clear he wasn't interested and was taken. Sometimes it's easy to assume the worst, but knowing how strong your relationship is will reassure you of how dedicated he is to you, not a random girl.

Not every fraternity boy is the same, and not all party crazy. Chris isn't a huge partier. He spends a lot of time working at his internship in a lab, in class, and working on schoolwork. Of course he hangs out and parties every now and then like any college student, but he's not the only guy who doesn't prioritize partying over academics. A lot of guys I know who are in fraternities put in the time they need to in order to receive good grades and understand the material. Like I said before, it's easy to assume the worst and believe every fraternity guy is obsessed with drinking, having sex, doing drugs, and are living up to the stereotype portrayed in movies. That's not always true, and that's important to remember!

Hanging out there is fun, especially when you bring your friends! This past summer, I spent a lot of time down at the fraternity. They were constantly having smallish parties and fun barbecues for guys rushing and interested in pledging, and sometimes we'd go down and visit just to hang out with the summer live-ins! There were days Chris and I would go down, but others, I would invite my best girlfriends, and even my best friend Paul who was rushing! The barbecues were so fun and hanging out with everyone down there is always a blast.

{Chris and my bff Paul (who signed Delts!)
Summer 2013}

 {Summer 2013}

Sometimes you get cool fraternity gear. There are few things (in my opinion) more special than your boyfriend gifting you something with his letters on it. It's really nice knowing he wants you to represent him and his house! Maybe that's just me, but I find it very meaningful. Plus, the sweatshirts/shirts/tanks/etc. are always so cool!

{My Delta Tau Delta crewneck and Foam Party Spring 2013}

 Sometimes, really funny things happen. You gain a lot of fun stories to tell when you date a fraternity boy. Funny and strange things are always happening! Over the summer, one of the guys in Chris' house managed to get jalapeƱo in both of his eyes! He wasn't laughing at the time, but after, he couldn't not laugh with us. You meet a lot of awesome people, you laugh a lot, and you get to have the time of your life.

If you read this far, congrats! And thank you. I hope you enjoyed this post and that it helped ease anything relating to dating in the Greek system when you're not a part of it yourself.


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